If something feels wrong in your relationship, you're in the right place.
Abuse in a relationship isn't always physical. It can be emotional, financial, sexual, or a slow erosion of your sense of what's normal. It doesn't always look like what you've seen on TV. And it's not always easy to name — especially when you're in the thick of it.

Any relationship that makes you feel unsafe, controlled, or afraid is not okay. You don't need a bruise to prove you're facing abuse.

If you are in immediate danger, call 9-1-1. You are worthy of safety and accessing local resources. Help is available. You are not alone.

Here's what you can do from here

Take what's useful. Come back for the rest. No pressure, no timeline, no right order.

Find Emergency Help

If you need to leave right now, shelters can provide immediate safety and help you create a safety plan. You don't need to have everything figured out to walk through the door.

Reporting DV to Law Enforcement
Report It

If you choose to report to police, here's what you can expect: police may lay mandatory charges in cases of intimate partner violence, and you can request protection orders — including peace bonds or restraining orders to keep you safe.

Reporting DV to Law Enforcement
Access Support Services

Counselling, legal aid, and community-based programs that specialize in helping domestic violence survivors are available to you — whether or not you've reported.

Resources by Province
Understand Your Rights

As a survivor of domestic violence, you have rights under Canada's Victims Bill of Rights — the same five rights that apply to sexual assault survivors.

Survivors' Rights
Not sure if what's happening to you counts as abuse?

If someone in your life makes you feel scared, controlled, isolated, or like you're walking on eggshells — that's enough reason to be here.

You don't have to be certain. You just have to be here.

You have rights. We're here to help you understand them.

Every survivor deserves to know the protections, resources, and support available to them.

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